Thursday, May 26, 2022

Prayers for Robb Elementary School Victims in Texas


I offer these scripture readings in memory of the 19 children and two teachers brutally massacred at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas this past Tuesday, May 24, and pray for the day, O Lord, when children are no longer victims of senseless violence:


Matthew 2:16-18,
16 When Herod knew the magi had fooled him, he grew very angry. He sent soldiers to kill all the children in Bethlehem and in all the surrounding territory who were two years old and younger, according to the time that he had learned from the magi. 17 This fulfilled the word spoken through Jeremiah the prophet: “18 A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and much grieving. Rachel weeping for her children, and she did not want to be comforted, because they were no more.”

The full text of this comes from Jeremiah 31:15-17,
15 The LORD proclaims: A voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and wailing. It’s Rachel crying for her children; she refuses to be consoled, because her children are no more. 16 The LORD proclaims: Keep your voice from crying and your eyes from weeping, because your endurance will be rewarded, declares the LORD. They will return from the land of their enemy! 17 There’s hope for your future, declares the LORD. Your children will return home!

Lord, haste the day when the words of Jeremiah will come to pass!

Remember that God loves you and I do, too.

Sunday, May 22, 2022

God Gives the Growth

 "What then is Apollos? What is Paul? Servants through whom you came to believe, as the Lord assigned to each. I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth." (1 Corinthians 3:4-7)

It's hard to believe that this will be my last blog article to share with you as your Senior Pastor at McKendree UMC -- these past four years have come and gone so quickly (especially with two years of a pandemic thrown in)!  As most of you know, I’ve been appointed to serve as the new Senior Pastor of Cornerstone UMC in Newnan, GA, and the combined, blended worship service at 11:00am on May 29th will be my last time of worship with you. In my May 3rd blog post (read it HERE), I shared a number of good things that I believe God has accomplished in and through our ministry together at McKendree UMC which allow me to confidently be at peace about accomplishing exactly what God sent me here to accomplish. 

Your new pastor, the Rev. Dr. Cyndi McDonald, will be with you for worship on July 3rd, and her first Sunday preaching will be July 10th.  You are in for a true blessing under Cyndi’s ministry and leadership!  But before I leave, let me ask you to do several things to help make this pastoral transition a smooth one:

1) Pray for and support Cyndi... Pray that God would prepare she and her husband for the move and to give her a servant’s heart for you as God's people. Support her with your openness, friendship, presence, attitude, and enthusiasm.

2) Pray for Trish and I… that God may prepare to use us in a great way at Cornerstone UMC.  Like Cyndi here, my first Sunday "on the job" there will be July 10th.  In the meantime, we have already sold our house here in Lawrenceville, bought a house in Newnan, and Trish has found a teaching job at Evans Middle School in Newnan.  But we still have the move itself to do, along with all the headache and challenges that go with that.  So, while God is good, please still pray for us! 

3) Don't compare. Remember, just as I was not Julie Boone, so Cyndi McDonald is not Brian Germano.  So, don't compare or make hasty judgments based upon whether her ministry style is like mine or not -- it may be very different, but that may be exactly the style that God knows you need next (just as my style may have been exactly what God knew we needed for the season that I was here)!

4) While McKendree will always hold a special place in my heart, please remember that I will no longer be your Pastor. While there's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with Trish and I as friends, please respect Cyndi’s role as your new Senior Pastor.  As such, allow her the privilege of doing your weddings, baptisms, counseling, etc – please do not ask me back to do those things except through Cyndi’s invitation ("this is the (Methodist) way," by the way! any Mandalorian fans out there???)

5) Finally, let me encourage you to read carefully the scripture at the beginning of this article and remember that it is GOD who grows a church -- not Julie, Brian, Cyndi, or anyone else. “God gives the growth,” so we should give GOD the glory for the change and growth that has taken place over the last four years, and for the change and growth that God will bring through Cyndi, as well!  After all, McKendree is not my church, not your church, and nor will it be Cyndi’s church, either – it is GOD’s church, and GOD is the one who causes it to grow.

As I close, let me leave you with some of Paul's words to the church at Philippi that accurately reflect the feelings that Trish and I have for you at McKendree UMC, as well:

“I thank my God every time I remember you, constantly praying with joy in every one of my prayers for all of you, because of your sharing in the gospel from the first day until now. I am confident of this, that the one who began a good work among you will bring it to completion by the day of Jesus Christ. ...This is my prayer, that your love may overflow more and more with knowledge and full insight to help you to determine what is best, so that in the day of Christ you may be pure and blameless, having produced the harvest of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ for the glory and praise of God. I want you to know, beloved that what has happened to me has helped to spread the gospel!”        [--Philippians 1:3-6,9-12]

                                                      Above all,... never, ever, ever forget that

                                                                 God loves you and I do, too!

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Thoughts on "Being Sent..."

 "The apostles and the elders... agreed to send some delegates chosen from among themselves to Antioch, together with Paul and Barnabas." (Acts 15:22) 

Most of you may already know that it was announced about a month ago that I will be reappointed ("sent") by our Bishop to serve as Senior Pastor of Cornerstone UMC in Newnan, GA effective  July 3rd this summer. While Trish and I are sad to be leaving Lawrenceville (our final Sunday here will be May 29th), we are confident that we have accomplished what God sent us here to do, and are also looking forward to the opportunities and possibilities for ministry in the place to which we (like Paul and Barnabas) are being sent.  In addition, I strongly believe that the person God is sending to follow me as your new Senior Pastor – Rev. Dr. Cyndi McDonald -- is His choice to lead you into the next stage of your future.

Of course, the process of moving (or "reappointing") pastors every so often (called the "Itinerancy") is one of the unique qualities of being a United Methodist pastor and congregation.  Based on the early church model of "sending/appointing" leaders, while it’s often difficult when there is a pastoral transition, it does mean that our churches don't need to have "search committees" or hire interim pastors, and pastors don't have to go "sell" themselves on the "open market" in order to find a new church.  Instead, "no church is ever without a pastor," and "no pastor is ever without a church."

What's more is that since no single pastor possesses all the leadership qualities necessary to lead an individual church, having multiple pastors over time helps our church to be better than if it merely had one pastor.  My grown daughter once explained to a friend that our United Methodist system of moving pastors is like building a house:  we wouldn’t want only a plumber doing all the construction work.  Instead, to have a complete home, we need plumbers, electricians, carpenters, “floor-installers”, roofers, etc., each to bring their own unique skills to the work of building the house.

So it is with the building of God’s church: over the course of several pastoral tenures (over, say, 20-30 years), a congregation led by several pastors will be more well-balanced and “complete” than one where only one or two pastors have served.  Some pastors are better speakers; some are better organizers and/or leaders; others are more people-oriented; some excel at visioning or problem-diagnosis; while others are better with evangelism, missions; discipleship, etc.  ALL of these are important to have over the life-span of a congregation, but different pastors are appointed by God through our system to bring differing skills and strengths needed by a congregation at differing seasons in its history.  

Most importantly, many of you have heard me say that when our Itinerant system works properly, it encourages congregations to be built around the people, rather than around a particular pastor.  In doing so, it lessens the likelihood that church members turn the pastor into an idol by becoming merely a "cult following" of that pastor.  While our system is certainly challenging when there are transitions, hopefully you can see that there are plenty of good reasons to have it, as well.

That said, there’s been a lot accomplished in my tenure as your Senior Pastor that I want to celebrate with you.  For example, on my “watch”, together…

● We weathered and grew from the challenges and opportunities of the global COVID pandemic (that we’re only now just beginning to emerge out of).  While there have been many who questioned some of the decisions we made during it, I am confident that we did everything God wanted and needed us to do both to keep people as safe as possible (“do no harm”, after all, is the first “rule” of Methodist Christianity), and to help remind us of the true meaning and purpose of “church.”

For example, through it all, together we were reminded that God is not confined to a building/facility, or to “the way we’ve always done things.”  To the contrary:  we learned that we can worship God and Jesus both outside and online in our homes (like the early church!); that we can connect with one another through things like “Parking Lot Fellowship”, drive-up children’s movies, and “drive-thru Trunk-or-Treat”; how to celebrate digital Holy Communion, Ash Wednesday “Ashes to Go,” and to grow spiritually in online Bible Studies and Sunday School; our children’s, student, and music departments even learned how to do “socially distant” ministry (and we all learned what that phrase was and meant in the process!). There was truly no end to the creativity and flexibility that our staff and volunteers displayed to help us get us through the once-in-a-lifetime, unique ministry challenges of the pandemic.

● We constituted several versions of our Vision team to help us to more accurately understand and claim our church’s unique MISSION (“People. Doing Life Together. Connecting All Through Christ.”) and VISION for the future (the six strategic direction areas discerned by our ReThink Church Task Force, adopted by Leadership Council, and recently shared in worship – if you missed them, find a video about those HERE).  I am especially excited for McKendree about these six areas, as I feel like they are mini-descriptions of precisely what God has in mind for its future.  In that sense, though, I also feel perhaps like Moses who led his people out of Egypt (i.e., "the way we've always done things"), through the wilderness (i.e., the COVID pandemic), and was allowed to draw within sight of the "promised land" (i.e., our six strategic direction areas) but not to enter it.

● We were guided to form our church’s “Embracing Race Together in Christ” (ERTC) ministry team in response to the racial divisions highlighted over the past few years to help us address the continued racial and ethnic inequities in our community and world (Read more about that team HERE).  To date, this team has sponsored at least nine different projects and initiatives to do this, with more to come.

● We installed new technologies, equipment and renovations for ministry, including: new lighting and digital equipment in the Sanctuary for a better livestream experience; new equipment in our Virtual Conference Room (Room 311-312) for hybrid in-person and online meetings; installed digital video and locks on some of our doors for enhanced physical safety for our weekly staff and volunteers; selling what we called the “Brighton property” to help reduce our mortgage debt; and we renovated the Lockridge Fellowship Hall for our student ministry.

● While the challenges we’ve recently faced also meant we went through a time of spiritual and numerical “pruning”, we were reminded that God can and does work even through painful experiences such as these to help us become who we need to become for Him, and that “bigger is not always better.”

● We oversaw a reconstitution of our church’s staff, saying “goodbye” to several long-time staff members who either moved or felt called elsewhere, while also welcoming several equally talented new staff members who are just as excited to be working for God’s kingdom here.

● We provided direct leadership and guidance to several ministries (like our Stephen Ministry and Missions Council) to help them discern new directions for their future effectiveness.

● We prioritized the paying down of our mortgage debt so that we now owe about $850,000 debt on our facility.

● We introduced church leadership to the healthier and more biblically sound process of decision making by Consensus.

● Even in the midst of two very challenging pandemic years, we welcomed 129 new members into our community of faith (61 by first-time profession of faith in Jesus!)

All of these are just a few reasons that I can, with confidence, say I feel that I’ve accomplished what the Lord sent me here to accomplish with and among you.  But even as we celebrate these things, I ask that you please pray not only for me and my family as we prepare to move to a new field of ministry, but also for Cyndi as she prepares to arrive and begin leading you in July.

Always remember that God loves you and I do, too!