Saturday, December 31, 2022

New Year's Gift

"If anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new!” (2 Corinthians 5:17)

“In your hand has been placed a priceless gift. Look at it closely. There is no price maker stamped on it. It cannot be weighed, because no scale can balance its value. A king's ransom in comparison is as nothing yet it is given to beggar and prince alike. The giver asks only that it be used wisely and well.

This jewel, rare and unique, is not displayed in any shop window. It cannot be purchased, cannot be sold. No other treasure holds the possibilities this gift offers -- none can surpass its golden splendor.

Of all gifts, this is one of the most precious. It has been offered many times before; today, from the depths of a limitless love it will be given again. It will be left to you to find the golden thread running through it. Only with great care will the jewel retain its luster. Carelessness, ingratitude and selfishness will tarnish the brilliance, break the unspoiled thread, mar the perfection.

Guard it closely, lest through weak fingers it slip from the hand. Look often at its faultless beauty. Accept it as it is offered from the heart of the giver. Consider it is the most treasured of possessions, for of all gifts it is by far the greatest. It is the gift of the New Year.”

           [--Cited from timothyreport.com,  December 27, 2004]

As we begin a new year, I hope and pray that you will keep and use each moment for God’s glory.  If you’ve gotten out of the habit of weekly worship, now’s an excellent time to start back!

So, I hope you'll be in worship this new year, whether in person or online!  Remember, God loves you and I do, too!!

Sunday, December 25, 2022

Our Presents - Jesus' Presence

“And the Word became flesh and lived among us, and we have seen His glory, the glory as of a father’s only son, full of grace and truth.” (John 1:14)

A Prayer for the Opening of Christmas Gifts

“O Great Giver of all good gifts, make these beautifully packages and their contents more for us than simply objects and possessions.

Open our eyes… that we may see in these gifts the love and care that you have given us to share with one another. Grant that the sentiments behind every gift might be truly appreciated, and that our ‘Thank yous’ might be genuine.

Open our eyes… that these gifts might, in some small way, remind us of the many gifts you offer to us every day – food and family, clothes and shelter, employment and recreation, life and love.

Oen our eyes… that we may see in each of these gifts a tiny reflection of the greatest Christmas gift of all – the gift of your Son, Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.”

[-From the brochure “Jesus Presence; Our Presents” by Creative Communications for the Parish (St. Louis, MO) © 1993]

As you open (or have opened) the Christmas gifts of your household, may the joy of this day be yours, and may your gifts always bring to mind a recollection of God’s greatest gift to you and me… the baby Jesus! Remember, God loves you and I do, too! Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

Mary's Dream

"Mary treasured all these words [of the Shepherds] and pondered them in her heart.” (Luke 2:19)

“I had a strange dream, Joseph. I'm not sure, but I think it was about a birthday for our son. The people had been preparing for it for six weeks by decorating the house and buying new clothes. They'd gone shopping many times and bought elaborate gifts. It was peculiar, though, because the presents weren't for our Son. They were wrapped in beautiful paper and tied with lovely bows and stacked under trees. Yes, Joseph, a tree, right in their house -- with branches decorated and full of glowing balls and sparkling ornaments. And there was a figure on the top of the tree -- an angel I think.

Everyone was laughing and happy and all excited about the gifts, and they gave the gifts to each other, Joseph, not to our Son. I don't think they even knew Him. They never mentioned His name. Doesn't it seem odd for people to go to all that trouble to celebrate someone's birthday if they don't know Him? I had the strangest feeling that if our Son had gone to this celebration, He would have been intruding. Everything was so beautiful, Joseph, and everyone so happy, but it made me want to cry. How sad for Jesus -- not to be wanted at His own birthday party. I'm glad it was only a dream, though. How terrible, Joseph, if it had been real.”
  [–by Lloyd D. Lance]

As we prepare for Christmas, I encourage us not to get so caught up in all the consumerism, partying, and family get togethers that we forget Jesus as the real “reason for the season”!

Instead, invite your friends and family to join you in participating in the special activities and services of our church that are designed to help us focus on the one who’s birth is the reason why we celebrate in the first place. 

Don’t forget our two services on Christmas Eve (4:30pm and 6:30pm), a brief service of scripture and music on at 9am on Christmas Day, and one service at 11am on New Year’s Day with the chance to celebrate Holy Communion and the reaffirmation of your baptism.

Whatever you choose to participate in, let it be some of the ways that you celebrate the true reason for the season.  And always remember that God loves you and do, too!

Friday, November 25, 2022

The UN-Christmas


Each year, too often it seems that many of us get so caught up in the hustle and bustle that we can’t really enjoy the holiday season.  We stress about what to buy, what to wear, which parties to attend, and will be able to pay for it all next month!  We add even more activity on top of already packed schedules, compare ourselves to what others are doing, and then wonder why we are more stressed and depressed than at any other time of year.

Yet, if we look beyond the secular hustle and bustle, we’ll find that the Advent and Christmas seasons -- truly understood -- actually confront us with spiritual realities which challenge our assumptions about how to find ultimate meaning and hope in life. 

So this season, join Pastor Brian November 27 - December 18 on a spiritual journey as together we discover and unwrap the unexpected "gifts" God offers us through his son Jesus in a new series called "The UN-Christmas."  Discover how the true meaning of Christmas is actually counter to what's advertised in stores and on social media.  Best of all, discover the ultimate meaning and hope that God alone can provide during this holiday!

Sunday, November 20, 2022

Thankful "Leaves"


 “Always give thanks to God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ” (Ephesians 5:20)

Today in worship (November 20), our in-person and online worshippers had the opportunity to share things that they were thankful for. There were over 100 of these shared either digitally or on our “Thankful Trees”, and over 80 gave permission for me to share with you here the essence of the unique items that were written.  Note that the list below doesn’t repeat duplicates, they are in no particular order, and that in order to protect confidentiality, I deleted any references to specific names.

If what you are thankful for is not listed below, then be sure to express thanksgiving in your own way.  In the meantime, join myself and the members of Cornerstone UMC in saying thank you to God for…

My family and that I am able to be therefor them when they need me

Life

Family

Health

Church

Shelter

Mom & Dad

School

Friends

Teachers

My grandchildren

For God’s mercy and love

My (wonderful) husband

Faith

My life

All the little things that matter

My students

Work

Home

Freedom

The peace of God that passes all understanding (and calms my anxiety)

Birds – all of nature

My pets

God’s love and stability

Love

The love of God

Jesus!

God’s faithfulness and provision

My loving wife

My parents that raised us in a Christian home

My choir

Music

Singing

God’s goodness, provision, and perfect timing

Children

USA

Our Republic

My Pastor and his wife

Daughter

All the plenty God has provided

Food on the table

Kindergarten students

Grace

Rest

Coworkers

My joy

Supportive Boss

Random acts of kindness that remind us of the good in the world

Healthy mind and body

Thankful for the many years with my spouse

My relationship with Christ

Daily provisions

The abundance we have that enables giving to others

The happiness and joy the bell choir gives me

Being alive

Being able to take care of dad

Indoor plumbing

God’s love, grace and mercy

Life of new great grandson

For being able to worship

My two sons: one in heaven; one here

All that God has given me

The blessings God has poured out on me and my family

Always having food and shelter

For togetherness with friends and family

Retirement

Employment

God

For needs met

The rain, the seasons, the beauty in God’s world

The unexpected blessings

Medical professionals

My years of life

Bible study

Worship time

Family of believers

Missions

Peace

Cats

Everything God has done for me

Ability to travel

Sports

Pets

Freedom to worship in public

Thank you, Lord, for each of these persons and/or things!  We bless you for your bounty and goodness!

 

(NOTE: to read a list of the things I as your Pastor am thankful for, click HERE)

Wednesday, November 16, 2022

What I'm Thankful For


 “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”  (1 Thessalonians 5:18)


This past year I have had much to give God thanks for -- here are just a few.  I am thankful...

...for a wife, Trish, who models the love of God by loving me just as I am, warts and all!

...for our daughter Jennifer, who makes Trish and I proud, not only because of what she does but more importantly because of who she is and the beautiful woman of God she’s become.

…for our son-in-law Zach, who we are proud to call “son” because of the good husband he is for our daughter, and the great father he is for our grandchildren.

…for our granddaughter Hannah who is full of passion for life, compassion for others, and a bubbly spirit at nearly age 8.

...for our granddaughter Hayleigh, who is full of energy, excitement and curiosity about the new world that she is discovering at age 2 1/2. 

...for parents who raised me in church to love, understand, and eventually follow the ways of God.

...for a church family who loves, supports, and prays for both my family and myself daily.

...for all of my fellow staff members – Janet, Andy, Cindy R, Cindy J, Dianna, Dale, Thomas, Rachel, and Nina -- who, together with me, share in the cause and work of Christ through our church.

…for church members who love me in spite of the fact that we sometimes “go over” in Sunday worship due to long-winded preaching!

...for Sunday School, "Disciple" Bible study, and small group facilitators and leaders who live out their faith in the selfless way they teach and/or lead.

...for committee and ministry team chairpersons and members who give “above and beyond” to the work of Christ through their participation in and leadership of our church’s ministries.

...for the “behind-the-scenes” members of our A/V, greeter, usher, and Holy Communion ministries in the essential work that they do.

...for the members of our worship team, adult choir, handbell choir, and children’s choir for the blessing and inspiration they share through their music.

…for the staff of our church nursery who give tirelessly of themselves to make sure our children are safe and happy.

…for the staff and teachers of our Cornerstone Kids Preschool, in keeping us in touch with the needs of the community that we are called to serve.

...for church members who roll up their sleeves and pitch in to be part of "the answer," rather than whining about what someone else is not doing to fix "the problem."

...for church members and friends who are willing to make God a priority through their regular financial giving to His church.

...for fellow Christians who’re willing to step outside themselves by participating in serving and/or sharing ministries both locally, nationally, and overseas.

…most importantly, for God who gave his son for me to give me forgiveness and salvation when I didn’t deserve it, and for giving me life and hope in the midst of a hectic and mixed up world!

Of course, there’s many, many more, but have you “counted your blessings” lately?  When you do, I’m sure you’ll find that, like me, you have many things for which to “give thanks.”  This Thanksgiving holiday and for the entire month of November, I invite you to join me in striving to live out our thankfulness!  Remember, God loves you and I do, too!

WHAT ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR???

Tuesday, November 1, 2022

I Sing A Song of the Saints of God


 “To the church of God that is in... [Coweta County], to those who are sanctified in Christ Jesus, called to be saints...” (1 Corinthians 1:2)

“I sing a song of the saints of 

      God, patient and brave 

      and true,

 Who toiled and fought and lived 

     and died for the Lord they

     loved and knew;

 And one was a doctor, and one was a queen, and one was a shepherdess on the green;

 They were all of them saints of God, and I mean, God helping, to be one too.

 

They loved their Lord so dear, so dear, and his love made them strong;

They followed right for Jesus' sake the whole of their good lives' long.

And one was a soldier, and one was a priest, and one was slain by a fierce wild beast;

And there's not any reason, no, not the least, why I shouldn't be one too.

 

They lived not only in ages past; there are hundreds of thousands still.

The world is bright with the joyous saints who love to do Jesus' will.

You can meet them in school, on the street, in the store,

In church, by the sea, in the house next door;

They are saints of God, whether rich or poor, and I mean to be one too."

            [--Words by Lesbia Scott, from the United Methodist Hymnal, #712]

Today (November 1st) is “All Saints Day” -- a day for God’s people to celebrate and remember the lives of all God’s “saints”:  those living now who call Jesus their Savior; and those who’ve gone on to be with the Lord this past year. 

So, this coming Sunday as we remember and celebrate the “saints” of our church and the “saints” of our lives who’ve gone to be with the Lord since All-Saints Day last year, my prayer is that those of us who remain here will learn from the example of the “saints who’ve gone before” how to be people who live by the call of Christ. 

In the words of the hymn, “I mean to be one, too.”  Will you?  Remember, God loves you and I do, too!

Tuesday, October 25, 2022

2022 "Get to Know Us" Pastor's Survey Results

 “Please give your servant a discerning mind in order to govern your people and to distinguish good from evil, because no one is able to govern this important people of yours without your help.” (1 Kings 3:9, CEB)

Shortly after I arrived in July of this year, many of you will remember that I invited you as a congregation to complete a “Get to Know Us Pastor’s Survey” in which I asked four simple yet important questions to help me be better able to understand the values, priorities and potential Vision that you as our church family feel are important.

Thank you to the 59 of you who filled these out (35 digitally; 24 via paper)!  With all of my other priorities as a new pastor, I unfortunately wasn’t able to sort through all of them as quickly as I would have hoped.  However, I have now finally finished that process, and I am pleased to be able to share with you a summary of the top numerical results (NOTE: because of ties, the summary results below differ in number for each question)…

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Question #1: If there’s one thing you hope NEVER changes about Cornerstone UMC, what would it be? (top 4 results…)

1)  The close intimacy, friendliness and care of and among our church family/fellowship

2) Our focus on mission to/with our community and world

3, tie) Our focus on loving and welcoming ALL people (hospitality)

3, tie) Our great music ministry (including our choirs, praise band, children’s music, handbells, etc.)

4, tie) Our sharing of the gospel with our community and being a place where people find Christ

4, tie) That we offer traditional-style worship

4, tie)  Maintaining/offering two separate/unique services

 

Question #2:  If you could wave a magic wand and CHANGE any one thing about Cornerstone UMC, what would it be? (top 4 results…)

1, tie) Become a more diverse and inclusive church (better hospitality)

1, tie) Become a more compassionate, family-oriented church (more intentional fellowship opportunities, like fellowship meals)

2) Go back to having one combined & blended worship service

3) Facility additions and/or upgrades (including a new sanctuary, steeple, and renovation of existing spaces)

4) Growing our ministries with children, youth and families

(Of note: my favorite response from one of you for this question was… “Me!”)

 

Question #3:  As we share the gospel of Jesus in our community and world, what do you feel should be the PRIMARY VISION of Cornerstone UMC for the next 5 years? (top 5 results…)

1) Offer more outreach ministry and events that are open to/with/reaching our community (like ministry with community retirees; more marketing for GriefShare; offering ministry to/among the community vs. waiting for them to come to us; “meet people where they are”)

2) Focus on growing our ministry to/with children and youth

3) Focus on becoming more welcoming and diverse (“radical hospitality”)

4) Grow our compassion/care and mission ministries with our community and world

5) More intentional opportunities/ministries for fellowship and congregational care

 

Question #4:  What’s the best piece of ADVICE you could give Brian as our new Pastor? (top 3 results…)

1, tie) Listen (to all perspectives; “listen to understand, not to respond”)

1, tie) Prioritize pastoral care (including membership visitation)

2) Keep up the good work doing what you’re doing so far

3, tie) Be Jesus to the congregation /be visible to them

3, tie) Don’t show favoritism towards groups over one another (RE worship styles, opinions, ages, etc; Also, don’t allow one group to dominate over the others)

3, tie) Communicate/share information (including having transparency in decisions)

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While space didn’t permit me to share the detailed, raw inputs with you in this article (nor would most of you have wanted to sort through all 15 pages!), nevertheless you can access that raw data HERE if you want/desire.

Please know that in addition to your inputs guiding me in my leadership, our church leadership also be using those inputs in our Visioning process that we’ll begin in 2023.

Again, thankyou to all who completed one of these surveys – the information is invaluable to me and your church leadership as I/we pray about how to best lead and guide our church into its future through the power of the Holy Spirit. Always remember that God loves you and I do, too!

Saturday, October 15, 2022

10 Keys to True Security



"Set no vain hopes on robbery; if riches increase, do not set your heart on them." (Psalms 62:10)

In today's world, we tend to put our trust in all kinds of things: money, possessions, 401-Ks, our national military or economic might, and even in our families and friends. Yet, good and necessary though they all are, none of them -- in the end -- offer ultimate security and hope in our lives or in our world.

Instead, the Bible teaches a variety of principles to find, offer, and gain true security and hope. Here are a few of those:

1. Learn to value eternal rewards over temporal riches  (Matthew 6:20 & 33)

2. Work hard with a servant spirit  (Exodus 34:21; Matthew 20:26)

3. Worship faithfully, giving your “first fruits / tithe” (your first 10%, rather than your left-overs) to God’s work through His church  (Exodus 34:26; Leviticus 27:30; Malachi 3:10)

4. As God blesses you, learn to give sacrificial “offerings” (anything in addition to and above the tithe) to other worthy causes (Mark 12:44; Luke 21:4)

5. Save consistently (try to save at least 10% each pay period)  (Proverbs 21:5, 20)

6. Avoid / get out of debt by spending less than you earn – pay off your credit cards, and do not carry a balance (Romans 13:8; Proverbs 22:7)

7. Remember that you are a Steward of what you have (not an Owner), and practice consulting your heavenly Father’s will on every financial decision (Psalm 24:1)

8. Learn to be content with what you have, finding peace in God’s promises and presence, rather than in the need for more “stuff” (Hebrews 13:5-6)

9. Believe that God your Father will provide for your daily needs (Matthew 6:11; Philippians 4:19)

10. Be compassionate and generous with what you have, especially towards the poor and needy (Proverbs 11:25; Acts 20:35)

Always remember that God loves you and I do, too!

Monday, October 10, 2022

Keys the Treasure


“Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:21)

• What do you most want to be investing your life in?

• What are you actually investing it in?

Your honest answer to these questions may be a surprise. Often we think that our treasure (our time, talents, energy, and money) follows our hearts and passions. But in the scripture above, Jesus suggested just the opposite – that whatever and wherever we invest our treasure, our hearts will follow after that.

Many of us feel a sense of tension about our lives and our finances. We want to give our lives to our church, our family, our God. Instead, our hearts follow our debts, our bills, our jobs, and often we don’t even realize it. We are left feeling stretched, conflicted, and empty.

As a result, what we often fail to consider is how much our view and use of treasure affects our heart. It’s true that “treasure” involves more than money. But money IS a big part of the problem in many of our lives. Whether we’re in plenty or in want, money has a direct connection to our stress level, our anxiety, and the health of our relationships.

It’s no wonder, then, that Jesus talked about the relationship between our treasure and our hearts. And because he cared so much about our hearts, he therefore talked about what we do with our treasure.

Consequently, each Sunday October 16-30, in a new worship series called “Keys to the Treasure,” we’ll explore Jesus’ teachings about treasure, and how a proper understanding and use of it can help us not only find security in an uncertain world, but can also unlock a vital relationship with God.

Then, at our combined, blended fifth Sunday worship service at 11:00am on October 30 (“Celebration Sunday”), we’ll have the chance to make personal investments of our God-provided treasure for the coming year through our church by the sharing of either a physical or online commitment. It’s my prayer that, at the end of these three weeks, we’ll all have a better awareness not only of what we invest our lives in, but also of how we can do a better job making God our ultimate treasure through our living and our giving.

Always remember that God loves you, and I do, too!

Tuesday, September 6, 2022

Grace All the Way Home


The grace of God is one of the most important concepts of Christian faith. But what exactly is it? What’s so “amazing” about it? And why is it so important to our lives of faith? Join me for this three-part sermon series as we explore one of the most famous parables of Jesus to help us more fully understand God’s grace and what it looks like in our daily lives.

>September 11 – The Rebellious Heart (Luke 15:11-24)

       What we learn about Grace from the prodigal son

>September 18 – The Bitter Heart (Luke 15:25-32)

       What we learn about Grace from the older brother

>September 25 – The Compassionate Heart (Luke 15:20-25, 28-32)

       What we learn about Grace from the compassionate Father

I hope to you will join us in either in-person or online worship at Cornerstone UMC starting September 11th

Thursday, August 11, 2022

4R: Psalm 23 for Today


Sheep, shepherds, green pastures, still waters…. all are rustic and seemingly antiquated analogies that – on the surface -- seem foreign to the fast-paced, tech-oriented world in which we live. And yet, when we dig deeper, these metaphors have much to teach us about finding peace and fulfillment in the midst of today’s hectic life. 

Join Pastor Brian from August 14 – September 4 for a series unpacking four spiritual practices (all starting with the letter R!) found in a verse-by-verse exploration of one of the most well-known and well-loved chapters in the Bible: Psalm 23.

    August 14: What Do You Want? (Verses 1-2a)

    August 21: Who's Your Leader? (Verses 2b-3)

    August 28: Finding God In the Valleys (Verse 4)

    September 4: Dining Well (Verses 5-6)

Please invite your family and friends to join us for this special worship series.

Remember that God loves you and I do, too!

Wednesday, July 20, 2022

Finding What You Look for At Church




 “Why do you see the splinter that’s in your brother’s or sister’s eye, but don’t notice the log in your own eye?” (Matthew 7:3)
 




If you’ve seen this posting as its making its rounds recently on Facebook, please excuse the repetition.  However, after my wife shared it with me, I felt it was too good (and too true) NOT to share!

“If you to church looking to become offended, you’ll succeed.
 
If you go to church looking for places where people fall short, you’ll find them.
 
If you go to church looking for imperfection, you’ll see it.
 
But if you go to church looking for an opportunity to worship alongside broken people (just like you), you’ll find it.
 
If you go to church looking for a place to serve, you’ll find one.
 
If you go to church to love people like Jesus loved them, you can.
 
10 times out of 10… you’ll find what you’re looking for.
 
Look for Jesus!”
 
How true are each of these… we find what we look for not only when we’re considering our church family, but – for all practical purposes – in anything we do in life.  Before we go looking for what’s wrong with someone or something else around us, we must first look to ourselves to see where we ourselves need to be improved.  When we do that, more often than not we’ll find that we have little to no room to judge others, but instead to leave judgement to God.
 
I pray that when you are connecting with your church at Cornerstone UMC (or whatever church you are a part of), you will look for Jesus.  If you do, you’ll find him!  Remember that God loves you and I do, too.
 
 

Tuesday, June 21, 2022

Faith-Bits Welcomes Cornerstone UMC

 “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, so that you may now that you have eternal life.” (1 John 5:13)

I’d like to welcome members and friends of my new congregation (Cornerstone UMC in Newnan, GA) to  “Faith Bits,” my blog about life and faith in the 21st-century.  While I do use this forum to host occasional Pastor’s articles for our church’s e-newsletter, you’ll also find here some of my personal thoughts and musings on life, faith and Christian living relating not only to our local church, but also to our local, state, national and world community at large. 

Over the course of time, within this forum you’ll find words and stories of inspiration, information, challenge and humor.  I encourage you to subscribe at right (i.e.,"Follow My Blog By Email") to receive all posts as they appear, remembering that I will sometimes post articles here that will not appear in our regular church e-newsletter.  And, as I designed this to be an interactive online forum (where my articles are merely discussion-starters), please feel free to share appropriate comments as you feel led (click on the “comment” link at the bottom of each post), and/or share them with a friend via email or social media.

Finally, on this blog you’ll also find “Links to Life” websites that can help resource you in your walk of faith, as well as resource links to a few of my sermons (and other materials) that address common questions of faith and spirituality that I’m often asked or that I hear.

In the same way and spirit as the apostle Paul writing letters to his congregations (letters that we today call “Epistles” in the Bible’s New Testament), my hope and prayer is that this blog -- “Faith Bits” -- will become a connection point not only for life within our faith community at Cornerstone UMC, but will also provide each of you with an important and trusted source (and resource) for your own personal walk with God.

Remember that God loves you and I do, too!

Thursday, May 26, 2022

Prayers for Robb Elementary School Victims in Texas


I offer these scripture readings in memory of the 19 children and two teachers brutally massacred at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas this past Tuesday, May 24, and pray for the day, O Lord, when children are no longer victims of senseless violence:


Matthew 2:16-18,
16 When Herod knew the magi had fooled him, he grew very angry. He sent soldiers to kill all the children in Bethlehem and in all the surrounding territory who were two years old and younger, according to the time that he had learned from the magi. 17 This fulfilled the word spoken through Jeremiah the prophet: “18 A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and much grieving. Rachel weeping for her children, and she did not want to be comforted, because they were no more.”

The full text of this comes from Jeremiah 31:15-17,
15 The LORD proclaims: A voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and wailing. It’s Rachel crying for her children; she refuses to be consoled, because her children are no more. 16 The LORD proclaims: Keep your voice from crying and your eyes from weeping, because your endurance will be rewarded, declares the LORD. They will return from the land of their enemy! 17 There’s hope for your future, declares the LORD. Your children will return home!

Lord, haste the day when the words of Jeremiah will come to pass!

Remember that God loves you and I do, too.

Sunday, May 22, 2022

God Gives the Growth

 "What then is Apollos? What is Paul? Servants through whom you came to believe, as the Lord assigned to each. I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth." (1 Corinthians 3:4-7)

It's hard to believe that this will be my last blog article to share with you as your Senior Pastor at McKendree UMC -- these past four years have come and gone so quickly (especially with two years of a pandemic thrown in)!  As most of you know, I’ve been appointed to serve as the new Senior Pastor of Cornerstone UMC in Newnan, GA, and the combined, blended worship service at 11:00am on May 29th will be my last time of worship with you. In my May 3rd blog post (read it HERE), I shared a number of good things that I believe God has accomplished in and through our ministry together at McKendree UMC which allow me to confidently be at peace about accomplishing exactly what God sent me here to accomplish. 

Your new pastor, the Rev. Dr. Cyndi McDonald, will be with you for worship on July 3rd, and her first Sunday preaching will be July 10th.  You are in for a true blessing under Cyndi’s ministry and leadership!  But before I leave, let me ask you to do several things to help make this pastoral transition a smooth one:

1) Pray for and support Cyndi... Pray that God would prepare she and her husband for the move and to give her a servant’s heart for you as God's people. Support her with your openness, friendship, presence, attitude, and enthusiasm.

2) Pray for Trish and I… that God may prepare to use us in a great way at Cornerstone UMC.  Like Cyndi here, my first Sunday "on the job" there will be July 10th.  In the meantime, we have already sold our house here in Lawrenceville, bought a house in Newnan, and Trish has found a teaching job at Evans Middle School in Newnan.  But we still have the move itself to do, along with all the headache and challenges that go with that.  So, while God is good, please still pray for us! 

3) Don't compare. Remember, just as I was not Julie Boone, so Cyndi McDonald is not Brian Germano.  So, don't compare or make hasty judgments based upon whether her ministry style is like mine or not -- it may be very different, but that may be exactly the style that God knows you need next (just as my style may have been exactly what God knew we needed for the season that I was here)!

4) While McKendree will always hold a special place in my heart, please remember that I will no longer be your Pastor. While there's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with Trish and I as friends, please respect Cyndi’s role as your new Senior Pastor.  As such, allow her the privilege of doing your weddings, baptisms, counseling, etc – please do not ask me back to do those things except through Cyndi’s invitation ("this is the (Methodist) way," by the way! any Mandalorian fans out there???)

5) Finally, let me encourage you to read carefully the scripture at the beginning of this article and remember that it is GOD who grows a church -- not Julie, Brian, Cyndi, or anyone else. “God gives the growth,” so we should give GOD the glory for the change and growth that has taken place over the last four years, and for the change and growth that God will bring through Cyndi, as well!  After all, McKendree is not my church, not your church, and nor will it be Cyndi’s church, either – it is GOD’s church, and GOD is the one who causes it to grow.

As I close, let me leave you with some of Paul's words to the church at Philippi that accurately reflect the feelings that Trish and I have for you at McKendree UMC, as well:

“I thank my God every time I remember you, constantly praying with joy in every one of my prayers for all of you, because of your sharing in the gospel from the first day until now. I am confident of this, that the one who began a good work among you will bring it to completion by the day of Jesus Christ. ...This is my prayer, that your love may overflow more and more with knowledge and full insight to help you to determine what is best, so that in the day of Christ you may be pure and blameless, having produced the harvest of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ for the glory and praise of God. I want you to know, beloved that what has happened to me has helped to spread the gospel!”        [--Philippians 1:3-6,9-12]

                                                      Above all,... never, ever, ever forget that

                                                                 God loves you and I do, too!

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Thoughts on "Being Sent..."

 "The apostles and the elders... agreed to send some delegates chosen from among themselves to Antioch, together with Paul and Barnabas." (Acts 15:22) 

Most of you may already know that it was announced about a month ago that I will be reappointed ("sent") by our Bishop to serve as Senior Pastor of Cornerstone UMC in Newnan, GA effective  July 3rd this summer. While Trish and I are sad to be leaving Lawrenceville (our final Sunday here will be May 29th), we are confident that we have accomplished what God sent us here to do, and are also looking forward to the opportunities and possibilities for ministry in the place to which we (like Paul and Barnabas) are being sent.  In addition, I strongly believe that the person God is sending to follow me as your new Senior Pastor – Rev. Dr. Cyndi McDonald -- is His choice to lead you into the next stage of your future.

Of course, the process of moving (or "reappointing") pastors every so often (called the "Itinerancy") is one of the unique qualities of being a United Methodist pastor and congregation.  Based on the early church model of "sending/appointing" leaders, while it’s often difficult when there is a pastoral transition, it does mean that our churches don't need to have "search committees" or hire interim pastors, and pastors don't have to go "sell" themselves on the "open market" in order to find a new church.  Instead, "no church is ever without a pastor," and "no pastor is ever without a church."

What's more is that since no single pastor possesses all the leadership qualities necessary to lead an individual church, having multiple pastors over time helps our church to be better than if it merely had one pastor.  My grown daughter once explained to a friend that our United Methodist system of moving pastors is like building a house:  we wouldn’t want only a plumber doing all the construction work.  Instead, to have a complete home, we need plumbers, electricians, carpenters, “floor-installers”, roofers, etc., each to bring their own unique skills to the work of building the house.

So it is with the building of God’s church: over the course of several pastoral tenures (over, say, 20-30 years), a congregation led by several pastors will be more well-balanced and “complete” than one where only one or two pastors have served.  Some pastors are better speakers; some are better organizers and/or leaders; others are more people-oriented; some excel at visioning or problem-diagnosis; while others are better with evangelism, missions; discipleship, etc.  ALL of these are important to have over the life-span of a congregation, but different pastors are appointed by God through our system to bring differing skills and strengths needed by a congregation at differing seasons in its history.  

Most importantly, many of you have heard me say that when our Itinerant system works properly, it encourages congregations to be built around the people, rather than around a particular pastor.  In doing so, it lessens the likelihood that church members turn the pastor into an idol by becoming merely a "cult following" of that pastor.  While our system is certainly challenging when there are transitions, hopefully you can see that there are plenty of good reasons to have it, as well.

That said, there’s been a lot accomplished in my tenure as your Senior Pastor that I want to celebrate with you.  For example, on my “watch”, together…

● We weathered and grew from the challenges and opportunities of the global COVID pandemic (that we’re only now just beginning to emerge out of).  While there have been many who questioned some of the decisions we made during it, I am confident that we did everything God wanted and needed us to do both to keep people as safe as possible (“do no harm”, after all, is the first “rule” of Methodist Christianity), and to help remind us of the true meaning and purpose of “church.”

For example, through it all, together we were reminded that God is not confined to a building/facility, or to “the way we’ve always done things.”  To the contrary:  we learned that we can worship God and Jesus both outside and online in our homes (like the early church!); that we can connect with one another through things like “Parking Lot Fellowship”, drive-up children’s movies, and “drive-thru Trunk-or-Treat”; how to celebrate digital Holy Communion, Ash Wednesday “Ashes to Go,” and to grow spiritually in online Bible Studies and Sunday School; our children’s, student, and music departments even learned how to do “socially distant” ministry (and we all learned what that phrase was and meant in the process!). There was truly no end to the creativity and flexibility that our staff and volunteers displayed to help us get us through the once-in-a-lifetime, unique ministry challenges of the pandemic.

● We constituted several versions of our Vision team to help us to more accurately understand and claim our church’s unique MISSION (“People. Doing Life Together. Connecting All Through Christ.”) and VISION for the future (the six strategic direction areas discerned by our ReThink Church Task Force, adopted by Leadership Council, and recently shared in worship – if you missed them, find a video about those HERE).  I am especially excited for McKendree about these six areas, as I feel like they are mini-descriptions of precisely what God has in mind for its future.  In that sense, though, I also feel perhaps like Moses who led his people out of Egypt (i.e., "the way we've always done things"), through the wilderness (i.e., the COVID pandemic), and was allowed to draw within sight of the "promised land" (i.e., our six strategic direction areas) but not to enter it.

● We were guided to form our church’s “Embracing Race Together in Christ” (ERTC) ministry team in response to the racial divisions highlighted over the past few years to help us address the continued racial and ethnic inequities in our community and world (Read more about that team HERE).  To date, this team has sponsored at least nine different projects and initiatives to do this, with more to come.

● We installed new technologies, equipment and renovations for ministry, including: new lighting and digital equipment in the Sanctuary for a better livestream experience; new equipment in our Virtual Conference Room (Room 311-312) for hybrid in-person and online meetings; installed digital video and locks on some of our doors for enhanced physical safety for our weekly staff and volunteers; selling what we called the “Brighton property” to help reduce our mortgage debt; and we renovated the Lockridge Fellowship Hall for our student ministry.

● While the challenges we’ve recently faced also meant we went through a time of spiritual and numerical “pruning”, we were reminded that God can and does work even through painful experiences such as these to help us become who we need to become for Him, and that “bigger is not always better.”

● We oversaw a reconstitution of our church’s staff, saying “goodbye” to several long-time staff members who either moved or felt called elsewhere, while also welcoming several equally talented new staff members who are just as excited to be working for God’s kingdom here.

● We provided direct leadership and guidance to several ministries (like our Stephen Ministry and Missions Council) to help them discern new directions for their future effectiveness.

● We prioritized the paying down of our mortgage debt so that we now owe about $850,000 debt on our facility.

● We introduced church leadership to the healthier and more biblically sound process of decision making by Consensus.

● Even in the midst of two very challenging pandemic years, we welcomed 129 new members into our community of faith (61 by first-time profession of faith in Jesus!)

All of these are just a few reasons that I can, with confidence, say I feel that I’ve accomplished what the Lord sent me here to accomplish with and among you.  But even as we celebrate these things, I ask that you please pray not only for me and my family as we prepare to move to a new field of ministry, but also for Cyndi as she prepares to arrive and begin leading you in July.

Always remember that God loves you and I do, too!