“God is our refuge
and strength.... Therefore we will not fear, though the earth
should change....”
(Psalm 46:1-2)
As
our church staff undergoes significant change this summer as we say “goodbye”
to some friends and “hello” to new ones, I thought it would be helpful for us all
to remember the blessings and challenges of CHANGE – of being willing to
stretch and become more than we already are.
The following modern day parable is a follow up to that message, and
comes from Rev. Carolyn Wittwer of the New York Annual Conference by way of
Rev. Doug Smith, former Pastor of First United Methodist Church of Morristown,
Tennessee:
“Long
ago, when the world was very new... there was a certain lobster who determined
that the Creator had made a mistake. So
he set up an appointment to discuss the matter.
“With all due respect,” said the lobster, “I wish to complain about the
way you designed my shell. You see, I
just get used to one outer casing, when I’ve got to shed it for another; very
inconvenient and rather a waste of time.”
To which the Creator replied, “I see.
But do you realize that it is the giving up of one shell that allows you
to grow into another?”
“But
I like myself just the way I am,” the lobster said. “Your mind’s made up?” the Creator said. “Indeed!” the lobster stated firmly.
“Very
well,” smiled the Creator. “From now on,
your shell will not change... and you may go about your business just as you
are right now.” “That’s very kind of
you,” said the lobster, and left.
At
first, the lobster was very content with wearing the same old shell. But as time passed, he found that his once
light and comfortable shell was becoming quite heavy and tight. After a while, in fact, the shell became so
cumbersome that the lobster couldn’t feel anything at all outside himself. As a result, he was constantly bumping into
others. Finally, it got to the point where he could hardly breathe. So with great effort, he went back to see the
Creator.
“With
all due respect,” the lobster sighed, “contrary to what you promised, my shell
has not remained the same. It keeps
shrinking!” “Not at all,” smiled the
Creator. “Your shell may have gotten a
little thicker with age, but it has remained the same size. What’s happened is that you have changed
inside, beneath your shell.”
The
Creator continued: “You see, everything changes... continuously. No one remains the same. That’s the way I’ve designed things. And the wisest choice is to shed your old
shell as you grow.” “I see,” said the
lobster, “but you must admit it is occasionally inconvenient and a bit
uncomfortable.”
“Yes,”
said the Creator, “but remember, all growth carries with it both the
possibility of discomfort... and the potential for great joy as you discover
new parts of yourself. After all, you
can’t have one without the other.” “That’s very sensible,” said the
lobster.
“If
you’d like,” offered the Creator, “I’ll tell you something more.” “Please do!”
encouraged the lobster. “When you let go
of your shell and choose to grow,” said the Creator, “you build new strength
within yourself and in that strength you’ll find new capacity to love
yourself... to love those around you... and to love life itself. That is my plan for each of you.”
How
is God calling you to stretch and change in your life? in your faith? What new thing(s) is He challenging you with
lately? In what ways are you being
called to be more than you have been? My
hope and prayer is that even though change is often difficult and uncomfortable
(even for a church staff), you and we will all welcome it as a tool from God to
help us become who He wants us to be. Remember,
God loves you and I do, too!
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